1. Manage spending and get out of debt. Jan has not started well with my laying down a 50% deposit for my RYA competent crew, but at least it's closer to being able to do proper stuff with my free time
2. Stop searching for the One. My life's not broke, so why fix it? Why expend energy getting uptight and angry about things I can't change. Why forget that there is no such thing as mixed signals when it comes to men.
3. Cultivate my interests. This does not mean having to spend a pile of money, but it does mean giving things quality time.
4. Check up on my debt, am I getting out of it quickly enough?
5. Think about a mortgage. I can't live here forever. But I don't want to pay for the privilege of being the bank's tenant forever, either. This goes with 1 in the living within my means.
6. Keep in touch with my family and friends and be thankful for them. Not because I might need them, but because they're very good at helping me see who I am. And accepting that person. And because I like having them around.
7. Continue exercising and losing weight. It's important, and it can be fun, too!
8. Less anger, more love. Breathe. Be.
